I think we as women at one or two points throughout our day feel guilty, or shame, or inadequate, or didn't do enough or did too much or should of etc. Stop! the minute that voice goes off in your head, replace it w a message to yourself of self love. "I am amazing!;" "I am doing my best and it is good enough for everyone!" Stop giving away your happiness by admonishing yourself. When you cast a ballot for yourself and vote in your favor vs. beating yourself up, you will be less grumpy, bitter, and happier. Your aura and aspect will change and others will be happier and more relaxed around you. Forgive yourself and give yourself applause, especially in this Month of Love.